May I also caution some of you who truly believe you have it all together, be careful. That fall is not a fun one. I thought I had a pretty good bead on things and then life interrupted with death. When you think you’ve got it and you don’t… that is a long fall and the sudden stop at the end is painful. And then, when you look around for someone to help you up, guess what… you, your family and closest friends… if you are blessed, and God, that is about the extent of it.